It's flagged because these "personal issues" articles appear constantly on HN, and they're all kinda the same. "He said this, I did this, somebody said this, I didn't like when this happened". It's just noise at this point, it's the same story but with different actors.
(I get that that in itself is a problem - that the issue isn't going away, evidenced by the continual posting of this articles - it just becomes a bit much for a casual internet message board)
Articles on HN are routinely flagged for reasons independent of the substance of the article itself. You cannot judge the merit of an article, or even HN's opinion of its merit, from whether it's flagged.
And you don't find that important? Don't you think seeing these stories constantly is a necessary part of eventually ending them? If we flag them all and they disappear, will we have helped end oppression, or helped perpetuate it? ("Neither" is not an option because flagging is taking direct action)
Society is moving forward, it's happening. It's not something that's going to correct itself fully in a day, month, or year. It will take at least another generation to fully work out these problems, but it's happening.
There's a nice quote that I just read, but I forget the author: "It's easier to raise strong children than to fix broken adults". This is how we are going to fix sexism. Not by writing and reading huge personal diatribes. Not by protesting. Not by affirmative action. But by raising smart, empathetic children.
A human is more complex than that. Even with granola-eating compost-gardening flower child parents, you can still end up with a hitler youth. The opposite is true as well. Why? Because parents are not the only influence (thank Bob) on a developing person.
One of the strongest influences on a person is their peer group. Parents provide a model, but the peer group is where a lot of people get their core social values from. It's where you learn how to dress, how to talk, what sports to play, what music to listen to, and how to treat other people.
But to say "eh, things are getting better, don't worry about it", is completely antithetical to the idea of not writing personal stories, or protesting, or affirmative action. Things are getting better because of these things. You didn't grow up in the era of desegregation. You didn't grow up in the era of women's suffrage. These things took many, many generations to defeat, and they required long, protracted battles and getting in people's faces because most people didn't want things to get better.
Yes, we need to raise smart, empathetic children. And we need to bring them to protest rallies.
(I get that that in itself is a problem - that the issue isn't going away, evidenced by the continual posting of this articles - it just becomes a bit much for a casual internet message board)