Oh brother! This is kind of "concern-trolling" isn't it? "I'm concerned for you." Also see: "I'll pray for you," which passive-aggressive religious people say to simultaneously indicate that they disapprove of your (usually totally harmless) activities that are supposedly going to lead to retributive hellfire, and that they've got their act together more than you do.
language policing = religious righteousness
callouts = virtue signaling
"You might have some self work to do" = "I'll pray for you"
I disagree entirely. I feel like your parent comment was simply offering the (hopefully) obvious advice to not bring that negativity with them. The parent comment was not preachy at all in my view, and the entire point of this thread is communicating the previous companies lack of existence. We're here to discuss communication. I don't think the parent comment was off this mark at all.
language policing = religious righteousness
callouts = virtue signaling
"You might have some self work to do" = "I'll pray for you"
your future prospects = retributive hellfire