Have a conversation that's more reasonable. Instead of "Do black people deserve to live" which we all agree with, we can have talks of, "What are the reasons for poverty and violence in the black community." And maybe not calling everyone with a non-woke perspective a racist or an uncle Tom.
Whether black people should be allowed to live? Gay people? Trans people?
Who is it you still need to have a conversation about whether they are allowed to have human rights?