1 (usually dealings) a business relation or transaction: they had dealings with an insurance company.
• a personal connection or association with someone: my dealings with David consisted of giving him his late-night formula.
• the particular way in which someone behaves toward others: fair dealing came naturally to him.
A personal connection with someone, not an entire ethnic group / race of people. I really have doubts that you would say it another way.
“This kind of insensitivity always happens when I deal with white people.”
Whether its accurate or not, this comes across as a chore, as if there is a checkbox of trying that I get around to on occasion. As opposed to just socializing with people.
and the second bullet point doesn't even apply as thats not how you used it.
You should really engage in deeper introspection of your interactions to see why this is a chore for you.
So, just to make sure I understand. a minority person reports a story: "That's just one example! That's not racism!"
A white person reports this story and says "see, minorities exaggerate." and you are willing to give them the benefit of the doubt that it must have happened to more than one person.
