I don't understand the details, but it looks like you use the uefi-only option in the installer to install the UEFI 'firmware', which then lets you boot the openbsd installer.
Yes, there's an "UEFI environment only" option that only installs m1n1+u-boot (not Linux), OpenBSD/arm64 uses the EFI implementation provided by u-boot.
Mark Kettenis' from the OpenBSD project is responsible for upstreaming Apple M1 support for u-boot, and has been collaborating with the Asahi Linux team.