I’ve looked at many founders I considered successful, and they all had some card to play that others either: no longer could because the law changed, a relationship nobody else had, or was outright illegal but didn’t matter
I would say that there are no rules, only consequences. Or, the consequences are the rule.
Often you don’t know the consequences. This is sometimes a reason to live by self-imposed rules, because there are risks and they can’t easily be calculated.
FTX had consequences, but people had a very hard time predicting them for some reason.
It's a tidy idea, put in a concise and catchy way. It even sounds bold and empowering.
One problem with applying it is that could violate social contracts. When most people are playing by the rules, but one person gains advantage by cheating. Suddenly, it's more a freeloader/jerk move, than anything else.
Admittedly, things get more complicated when many people believe that the social contracts have already been violated, so there's no longer a contract (or "less" of a contract), so they might as well get the advantage, too. Before it got to that point, it started with early cheaters.
I don't think it sounds bold or empowering. I think it describes reality accurately, without bullshit. I wish someone had explained it to me as a young man. In my father's home, any rule was absolute law, and the consequence was always outsized.
I'm reminded of some popular news reporting of a psychological study (who knows whether it's reproducible), something like... People who behaved in some specific dishonest way also thought other people tended to have a similar level of honesty to themselves. Compared to people who didn't behave in that dishonest way, and who thought others tended to have a similar level of honesty to themselves.
How the causality works there, I don't have good guesses.
But the supposed phenomenon could reduce to simply differing conceptions of what the real world is.
I’ve looked at many founders I considered successful, and they all had some card to play that others either: no longer could because the law changed, a relationship nobody else had, or was outright illegal but didn’t matter
I would say that there are no rules, only consequences. Or, the consequences are the rule.