I pay for both, use them for different things, but to be clear, fastmail does not have the encryption features that ProtonMail does. Not a direct replacement if you’re interested in the privacy aspects.
I'm honestly shocked by how long I've been using Fastmail without having a single complaint to talk about.
Usually after using a tool for an extended period of time, there's gonna be some annoyance that you just have to learn to deal with. After five or so years of me using Fastmail, I can't think of a single thing that actually bothers me.
I migrated from paid proton to fastmail years ago and still happy.