I do donate. I do not expect them to be patriots and go die in a trench, but I also expect them to not be creeps and dickheads abroad. Their behaviour and narration presents a couple of cash-rich, entitled people detached from reality. They are not helping their own cause.
Are they trying to help any cause other than their own? Also - don't generalize based on nationality, please. These behave like this, others behave differently. This changes nothing about the war in Ukraine or Ukrainians.
They are refugees. They are not entitled to the same quality of life as they enjoyed in their own country. Nobody says they can't have it, but trying to maintain it by using digital footprints of 299 deceased people and stalking living persons while spending a lot of cash on toys is not going to help them last long in the UK. They need to accept what is obvious--they are refugees and may have to adjust their own expectations for a while. It helps to have friends when you are a refugee, but so far they upset people and have a permanent record on the internet linking their name with this idiotic stunt.