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a) people go out to spend time with already established friends, not talk to random strangers

b) people don't want to be approached by random strangers

c) I want to be friends with people who have similar lifestyle and values to me and create deeper connections

d) people have busy schedules and don't have time to meet

Source: I've tried

> but you haven't tried this particular activity that I recommend so you cannot tell that nothing works

Shut up. The ROI is just not there, and I'm happier just sitting at home smoking weed rather than keep chasing the high of a good conversation I've had five years ago. I'm not happy this way, but definitely happier.



> "Go out and talk to people" isn't valid advice. It's never been, but in 2025 finally even the mainstream is slowly admitting that this doesn't work.

It continues to work for me in 2025.


If you're short on money, try renting out one of your houses. Works for me.




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