> Neither of those are natural or forgivable, and I've never listened to a damn word Kirk said in my life
I haven't either. That's probably why I don't have an emotional reaction here. A guy was brutally murdered in public, and that's all I had to respond to.
Finding someone having mean thoughts--not actions, just thoughts and words--unforgiveable is, well, it's how you get entrenched, hateful, multigenerational conflicts like the one we're discussing.
Neither of those are natural or forgivable, and I've never listened to a damn word Kirk said in my life.