Ah, so what you're doing here is confusing "caring" with "borderline personality disorder".
This is also why men like dating crazy girls. It's not actually a good relationship or management style.
(To balance this out, one thing I noticed reading those bios of Jobs where he shouts at everybody, is that the people being shouted at were all director/distinguished engineer level or higher, so they were all earning millions per year. It's not like he did that with everyone.)
No I am using "caring" to mean "caring." I use the words I mean to, so please don't tell me I don't mean what I say.
And while Jobs implementation of "caring" was not as good as it could've been, and he could've solved the same problems a bit nicer, he still "cared" and still solved the right problems.
The people at Apple today don't have the same level of care, especially the senior leadership. If they would, I wouldn't have all these bugs that show it.