My stance is still the same as two years ago: Golang is a very decent language with a lot of interesting features. But the lack of direct address of fault-tolerance is what I am missing. In distributed systems, you can't hope to handle all kinds of failure scenarios. You have to punt at some point and assume that the problem doesn't ever happen in the real world. And that is where you need fault tolerance.
It's not really common or standard to rely on a cluster of VM instances to solve your distributed problems for you these days.
For most programmers: Statelessness is the default, replication and fail-over are the back-up plan.
Talking about Erlang's "fault tolerance" as if it's some sort of secret weapon these days (it was more important 10-20 years ago) is a canard and distracts from the better parts of Erlang.