Ah, so you're the one to blame for the "loss" of hour upon hour of my kids' lives. It's pretty nice to see them sitting side by side on the couch, each with an iPad, muttering gibberish at each other. Warms this nerdy father's heart. :)
Monogame is practically a drop in replacement which has multi-platform support/targets. FNA is also effectively the same, with a slightly more "purist" approach.
I honestly just assume that anyone that says XNA in the context of development in the last 5 years actually means one of the modern mono implementations.
Coincidentally and fwiw, the actual source code to Terraria was also a hellscape of spaghetti code.